Thursday, November 18, 2010

Love For All Seasons

When is the best time to love someone? Tomorrow? Christmas? Valentine's? Some say that Valentine's day is the best time to love someone because February is love month. Others say that Christmas is the true love season. Because it is the birth of Christ, the season for loving, sharing, and perpetual hope.
The truth is, we can love someone..anyone, at any time and any place. Love comes when we least expect it. Some people are prepared for it, some are not. We can never tell when will it hit us, or if it will ever hit us. But if love arrives at our doorstep, it is up to us if we will welcome it or just let it pass by. What will we do if love suddenly comes knocking on our door? I say, let it in. We'll never know if it'll happen again. Just set your heart free and do whatever makes you happy. Don't be afraid to get hurt, its all part of the process. Having negative thoughts and doubts won't do you any good. There's only one way to find out, right? However, if you've been hurt before, don't let your doors closed. Its not yet the end. Just take your time and get back to yourself. If you'll have the chance to love again, go ahead. Love wholeheartedly. Don't hold back because if you do, you'll regret not giving your best in the end.

The best time to love someone is.. today. The best love is.. unconditional. The best person is.. the one you love and the one who loves you. You don't have to give your full effort just to find someone who will love you for the rest of your life. True love is found effortless. Look around you. There are dozens of people who loves you. It can be your friends, family, or someone special. Your family is the best lover you could ever have. Because the love of a family is unconditional. They love you no matter who you are, no matter what you are. They will accept your difference, forgive your faults, ease your pain, and give you happiness. Friendship on the other hand, has a different kind of love than that to a family. They say that your friends are your brothers and sisters that God forgot to give you. They are the best people that you can share your happiness with. They are the people that accept you for who you are, give you advice when you are lost, and helps you in times of trouble. They are the people whom you can share your best moments with. Your friends and family are always around you. There is no person in the world that has no one. "No man is an island."

It doesn't matter who you love. What matters is how do you show your love for them. No matter who you love, when you love, as long as you're happy. it doesn't matter at all.